How to Manage Traumatic Stress

How to Manage Traumatic Stress

“I beg you take courage; the brave soul can mend even disaster.” – Catherine the Great The tragedy that occurred at the 2013 Boston Marathon has brought devastation into the lives of many people who may find themselves feeling emotionally numb, overwhelmed, or in a state of denial. It is natural to feel a wide…

How to Break Free from Mental Captivity – Part Two

How to Break Free from Mental Captivity - Part Two

“Our ideas, like orange-plants, spread out in proportion to the size of the box which imprisons the roots.” – Edward Bulwer Lytton In my last post, “How to Break Free from Mental Captivity – Part One,” we began to explore strategies for developing a more mindful and effective relationship with your internal mental experience. It’s…

How to Break Free from Mental Captivity – Part One

Be Your Own Master & Break Free from Mental Captivity

“You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” – Marcus Aurelius Do you ever feel like your mind has more control of you than you do of it? Many of us have experienced times when we feel like the captain of our own ships, confidently charting…

Trait Mindfulness: Pre-Sleep Arousal & Emotional Stability

Trait Mindfulness - More Emotional Stability and Less Anxiety at Bedtime

 “Be happy in the moment, that’s enough. Each moment is all we need, not more.” – Mother Teresa Mindfulness involves nonjudgmental, open-minded, and alert attention to the present moment accompanied by an accepting, gentle, and curious attitude. Research continues to mount in support of numerous physical, mental, and emotional benefits of mindfulness. You may find…

Improve Your Well-Being: “Quality of Life” Checkup

Take Charge of Your Well-Being - A Mindful Quality of Life Checkup

 ”Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.” – William James What factors do you think contribute to your overall well-being? Perhaps the concept of well-being conjures images of health, happiness, and vitality. Consider how well your current lifestyle choices are improving or thwarting your optimal state of well-being. This type of…

Start the Morning Right: 10 Mood Boosters – Part Two

Start the Morning Right - 10 Simple Mood Boosters - Part Two

“This is a wonderful day. And I have never seen this one ever before.” – Maya Angelou What type of attitude do you bring to the dawn of each new day? The way that you choose to look at the world around you has a significant impact on your overall mood. Imagine the difference between…

Start the Morning Right: 10 Mood Boosters – Part One

Start the Morning Right - 10 Simple Mood Boosters

“Waking up this morning, I smile. Twenty-four brand new hours are before me. I vow to live fully in each moment.” – Thích Nhất Hạnh Each morning offers the opportunity to start the day with an attitude of hopefulness, gratitude, and mindfulness. The way that you choose to greet the morning and move through your…

Self-Assessment: Difficulties with Emotion Regulation

Self-Assessment- Difficulties with Emotion Regulation

“I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.” – Oscar Wilde We all have different levels of awareness, acceptance, and comfort with emotions. For some people, emotions feel natural, vibrant, and filled with useful information; for others, emotions feel threatening,…

5 Evidence-Based Strategies to Strengthen Your Relationship

5 Evidence-Based Strategies to Strengthen Your Relationship

“The art of love… is largely the art of persistence.” – Albert Ellis Relationships resemble living organisms in many ways… they require nourishment, room to grow, and maintenance in order to thrive. Much like caring for a fragile living thing, the vitality of a relationship is largely dependent upon effective care. When a relationship is…

5 Tips for Making Healthy Lifestyle Changes

Lifestyle Changes - The Role of Willpower

“Everyone who got where he is has had to begin where he was.” – Robert Louis Stevenson The beginning of a new calendar year stirs up a variety of optimistic and pessimistic thoughts and emotions about making meaningful lifestyle changes for many people. Nostalgic reflections about your identity, goals, and ambitions from years passed may…